Monday, December 05, 2005

Pissed off.

Ok, so there is this guy in my life. I have waited on him for months because he needed some time to handle and get over a few things in his life. I think 8 months is more than long enough to wait on someone. So, I decide to move on and he gets pissed off and won't talk to me. I really care for this guy but he won't make a decision as to what he wants and he tells me that I shouldn't push him. IT HAS BEEN 8 FUCKING MONTHS. I would like to be able to move on with my life. Anyways, I feel he has been selfish in doing this, and I am extremely pissed. I just needed to vent so you don't have to respond to this.

6 comments:

nenni said...

er, what exactly is it that you're waiting for? What is he doing now, and what would you like him to do? And eight months is NOT a long time. If you're looking for a serious commitment, you should be a little more patient--I wouldn't want to be stuck with the same girl for a long time if I didn't know exactly who she was.

-rob

DaNi3L said...

8 months is a long time rob, and she is waiting for him to get over the stuff he needed to handle and get over a few things in his lif as she stated, this guy needs to either get over whatever he needs to get over with, or shut up and let michele move on

Michele said...

Thank you, Danny :)

Yes, what Danny said. Everything would be fine if he wouldn't get upset when I talk to other guys. When I say talk to them, I mean as friends not as anything more. He expects me to wait for him, but I can't have contact with any males while I wait. It is just frustrating.

LuNaMooN said...

Why can't you have any contact with other males? If he seriously wants something with you, he's gotta trust you. Seems to me like he's just making you wait for no good reason. Sorry to be harsh, but I don't tolerate this "I have other issues" bullcrap. Why can you not be there to help him with these issues? Is this going to take him forever to get over? And you're expected to wait that long? Nah, fuck that. I wouldn't put up with it. I have learnt, the hard way mind you, that men (and yes, women too) can play with your emotions if they know you have feelings for them. And to me, this is what's being done to you, Michele. And you're far too sweet for something as shitty as that to happen to you. Sorry hun, but I'm blunt. You don't get no sugar coating from me when it comes to this kind of thing. Still love you heaps tho :)

Michele said...

Thank you, Luna. I need to hear(read) that. All of that is the same things that I have felt and thought about but then I thought I was being mean if I walked away. I'm tired of waiting and only seeing him when it is convenient for him or when he wants something. ~hugs you~ It wasn't harsh. It was just the truth.

LuNaMooN said...

No hun, it's not being mean. It's protecting yourself from further heartbreak. I have that kind of relationship with someone, where he only talks to me when he wants something. It's damn frustrating, but I've learnt not to talk to him. It WILL be hard to break ties, no doubt about it. And you're going to think it's not worth it. But believe me, after its all over, you'll thank yourself. -hugs you tight- Just remember, we're here for you when you need us. And that's not an idle promise. Tis the truth.